Tuesday, September 9, 2008

Life CHanGing

So here goes a crazy story (at least I think) for all of you. So while in North Carolina I was starting to feel a lot different and getting sicker so after 4 pregnancy tests it was confirmed that YES I was pregnant whether I liked it or not. I am sorry to say that I wasn't excited at all :(... It certainly was not planned and seemed to come at such an inopportune time. I had to come back and teach while Dane is still in school full time! Plus I was on the couch for the rest of the summer not feeling well at all. Dane and I were just thankful for the Gospel at this time and new it must be in our Plan. So when I got home I made a doctor appt. and went to get checked out. Since I had no idea when I had gotten pregnant (yes we were preventing it) they told me I was 14 weeks which I new there was no way possible because I was still in UT and Dane was in NC. But with all the measurements they didn't think they were to far off, so they got me an ultrasound.
I went to the ultrasound by myself because Dane was still on his way back from NC. So she puts the ultrasound thingy on me and she says, "Oh... you're having twins" i immediately shoot back "No i'm not...!!??" and she says, "Oh honey, ... I wouldn't joke about something like that!" Yes you can imagine the shock at the moment!!!! My instant reaction was tears... but if you can imagine 100 emotions running through your body at one time that is what I was experiencing. Truthfully the rest of the ultrasound was quite a blur. But I did call Dane right after and was FREAKING out when I was telling him.... Quite the moment.
So here we are up to date. And in all honesty we are so excited!!!! I hate to say this, but I think it needed to be twins to get me so happy about it all. Buying a house was really no longer an option so after living with Hillary for a few weeks, we finally found a basement apt. that we really like and is within walking distance from Dane's moms.
I had an ultrasound today and am 14 weeks. The doctor said I am having
IDENTICAL TWINS which is really exciting, but also can be scary. I guess my baby's are in the same placenta but have different sacks. With this brings a scare of a disease called TTTS which means they are sharing the same blood and one baby takes more and can cause the other baby to die. So I went to a specialist today and as of right now they are not sharing blood. BUT it can happen anytime throughout the pregnancy and can be scary. So if having twins isn't already considered high risk, I have to have a ultrasound every 2 WEEKS to make sure things are running ok. So that's our story!!! Crazy I know, but also very fun........... It is so true when you think of how you never know what will come next because 1 year ago I never would of thought i would be pregnant let alone with twins!!!!
PS
Dane also had our 1 year anniversary... Quite the gift :)

17 comments:

Chris & Jennie said...

Oh my goodness Marion! WOW! I'd say that was a shock! But how exciting; I can't wait to find out what you're having. I hope you're feeling well -- we'll be thinking about you. Congrats!

The Sutherland Family said...

Wow is right!! Congratulations, I bet that was a shock! You'll be a great little mom of TWO!
Take care,
Ash

Chase and Neiko said...

Mar I am so excited they are identical! I'll call you soon.

tiffany and darren said...

WOW!!! That is quite the story. Congratulations, it is very exciting. You will get through it, some how tons of mommy's do. I can't wait to see pictures of the growing babbies!! They are going to be sooooo cute, yay!

Steve and McKenzie said...

Marion, that is so fun! You will love being a mom it is the best! I can't wait to hear all about it! I hope everything is going good!

Phillips Fam said...

Holy Cow! That is so exciting! You'll do great! Good luck with everything! Just a little advise. When you're not feeling well at school, just tell the kids your baby or i guess babies are sick and the kids always seem to be on thier BEST behavior.It worked for me at least and there were days I needed that:)

Whitney said...

Oh, we are so excited! You two will be the best parents ever!

Travis and Lindsey said...

How exciting Marion! You will be an adorable mom, and I am very excited for you! I cannot believe how many people are having twins these days (it makes me a little nervous), but you'll be great! I look forward to hearing all of the updates!

Katie McCaul said...

Hey Dane...so I found your blog and was so excited!!! We went to the BYU game and Jason told me your dad was the assistant coach and it made all the memories come back and I really miss you so I was so excited when i found your blog. Congrats on the twins! We have one little boy Reddek and it is the funnest thing in the world to have kids...scary to have twins but I know you will do great :) So keep in touch! I am going to add you to my list if that is cool.

You look great and your wife is so pretty! Good to catch up!!!
This is Katie Ludvigson in case you can't remember who I am...you better and if you don't, don't tell me you didn't

Unknown said...

Hey Marion! I found your blog on Jennie's. Congrats on the twins! I am sure it is very scary, but you will do great. We just had a little girl and she is SOOO much fun...You will love it.

P.S. This is Brooke Bailey

Katie McCaul said...

I thought she looked familiar and that is where from Math class...I loved that guy he was a little different but funny! Well I talked to Amanda and told her I found your blog and she made me promise I would say hello from her. Glad you two are doind well:) Marion have you been sick at all with the pregnancy? I hope all goes well.

Josh and Maddi Andersen said...

OH my goodness marion congrats! That is so awesome! I am so happy for you!! Hey e-mail me your e-mail address to maddiandersen@yahoo.com and I'll add you to my blog cuz its private!

Sherri Romney said...

Wow girl you are brave. I am so dang excited for you! And a little jealous, but we will catch up in no time! ;) I am glad I can keep in touch with you. Take care and rest as much as you can. Love Sher
Oh and Jake says hi to you and Dane

Sherri Romney said...

Oh and by the way, ask Dane if he remembers Cody Vance. I guess Dane was the one who convinced Cody to amputate his leg after he had a big accident. This was a couple years ago.

Sherri Romney said...

sorry this will be my last comment. I thought Dane would want to see Cody's story.

http://healthcare.utah.edu/orthopaedics/story/codyvance.html

Kirk said...

congratulations on expecting twins!

Scott & Christie Lamb said...

Shut up this is quite the story and to tell ya the truth i'm so jealous!! I've always wanted twins!!! You're lucky to have them first because i hear it' a lot easier to go from two to one than it is to go from one to two kids? haha i sure love ya and i'm so excited for you!!! Congrats! Glad i found ya!